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July/August Read more stories>> And the Award Goes To… The National and California Relay For Life Awards Program annually recognizes Relay For Life events that excel in the areas of Mission Integration, Fundraising, Teams, Survivors and other key areas. The California Division Relay Team has finalized the Awards Program for 2008. Excellence in Mission Integration Awards require an application, while other awards are data based and do not require an application. The Relay For Life of Paradise won the Excellence in Mission Integration Award in the "Promotion of What We Do Best" category last year. Here's a snippet of their entry form: "The Relay For Life of Paradise was a baby Relay this past year. They exceeded all of their goals by leaps and bounds. The Mission Delivery Chair team, Ruth and John, made sure Mission Delivery was integrated into every aspect of the Relay. They successfully educated the public and the participants about the American Cancer Society through mission stage announcements and through the teams that took on mission messages and activities at their campsites. Education and awareness activities, which promoted research, advocacy, information, services, colon cancer, breast cancer, tobacco, skin cancer, nutrition, and physical activity, involved almost every individual that attend the event. Paradise was even successful with inviting Congressman Wally Herger, who made a special trip from Washington D.C. He attended the Relay Saturday evening and addressed the crowd at the opening of the Luminaria ceremony on the importance of getting involved to make a difference."
5 Tried and True Tips 1. Fundraising: A Perfect 10. Are you oh so close to reaching your goal but falling just $100 short? Email everyone in your email contact list and let them know you are just "this much" away from your goal and you just need $10 from 10 people by the 10th of the month! You’re sure to get the responses you need to put you over the top! 2. Team Recruitment: Get in touch with your youth. Did you know that we have two youth organizations in California that count themselves as our National non-Corporate teams? The American Youth Soccer Organization (AYSO) and the Family, Career and Community Leaders of America (FCCLS) might have chapters in your communities that would love the opportunity to participate in Relay. Visit the AYSO at http://www.soccer.org/ and FCCLA at http://www.fcclainc.org/ to find out more about these great organizations! 3. Survivor Recruitment: Remember to have HOPE. When recruiting survivors and caretakers, remember the HOPE Model. 4. Sharing the Mission: Take Action! Get an action alert from ACS CAN in your inbox? Well print it out and bring it to your committee meeting, team meeting or kick off and have everyone sign it right then and there and send it in to the appropriate lawmaker. It’s a great way to show everyone how easy it is to FIGHT BACK and introduce people to the American Cancer Society Cancer Action Network. Make sure to bring plenty of ACS CAN forms with you as well so people can sign the action alert and join ACS CAN all in one place! 5. Marketing Your Event: Send a press kit. A press kit is a great tool to send to local media. Press kits usually consist of a press release, media alert and background information about your event. See the California Division’s Community Based Marketing Media Samples on http://www.relayforlife.org/ to see detailed instructions on how to build a basic press kit! Do you have a few tried and true tips of your own? Send us your secrets to success by clicking here. On a Personal Note I have been involved with Relay For Life of Redding for the past six years and just finished my second year as the event chair. I started working on the committee with my immediate supervisor, who was the event chair that first year. She is a breast cancer survivor, and for many years she was my reason to Relay until that day I heard the same words she had heard eight years ago: You have cancer. Who would have guessed something like this could happen to invincible people like Relay Chairs who wear red shirts with emblems of hope on them? I actually told my doctor I didn't have time for cancer Like that was going to make it go away! Here is my new relay story: I started spotting in December. I went to work and asked one of my co-workers if it was normal to spot after menopause. She said it had never happened to her and that I should call the doctor. It was time for my annual so I called and went in. We did a pap smear and the usual exam and talked about the spotting. My insurance goes into a goofy limbo in December so we have always avoided any major medical stuff around then. The doctor said we could wait and see if it happens again. Well, one month to the day it happened again just like a period. I let it pass and didn't go to the doctor. I was just too busy to stop and deal with it. In February it happened again. Twice. After the second time I woke up and took it seriously. I called my primary care doctor and she couldn't do an endometrial biopsy till March 13. This was February 26 so it seemed like a lifetime to wait. I was given the name of another doctor who could do it the next day. So off I went, on a Wednesday afternoon to get biopsied. On the following Monday morning March 3rd, I was sitting at my desk buried in work. The doctor called and started talking about the percentages of women that could be in the 1-2% range of having cancer. It hit me like a bolt of lightening that she was going to tell me I was in that percentile. Sure enough she said "You have cancer." Wow! She went on to refer me to a gynecologist/oncologist said treatment for my type of cancer is complete removal of the tubes, ovaries, cervix and uterus. If the cancer had spread beyond the uterus the next step was radiation. I took the rest of the day off and prepared myself. I had my husband meet me at home and I told him. Here is a little side story to catch you up: My husband’s doctor had found a lump in his prostate and had sent him to a urologist. The urologist did an exam and had found the lump as well. My husband’s biopsy was scheduled for April 2. My surgery was scheduled for April 7. Thankfully, his biopsy went well and April 5 we packed up and went on our way to stay with my daughter and son in law over the weekend. My daughter and I spent Sunday shopping and getting our toes done. I reported into the hospital with my family and friends at 8:30 Monday morning. Everyone was with me until I was wheeled away to the operating room. My family joined me in my recovery room just after I arrived. My husband and the kids stayed with me till I kicked them out later that evening. My husband was supposed to get his biopsy results that same day. Around 5 that evening he got the call. He had cancer too! They scheduled him for a bone scan on Wednesday, which meant he had to get back home on Tuesday. I was in the hospital for 5 nights and 6 days. The ride home from the hospital was 150 miles and 3 hours long. I was sick most of the way and I really couldn’t wait for the car to stop moving. We made it to one of the rest areas and spent some time trying to settle my stomach. When we finally made it home, I was so happy to see my very own bed. The doctor called me and said the cancer was contained in the Uterus and had just started to invade the uterine wall, which put me at a stage 1B. I am now more than 12 weeks past my surgery, 4 weeks past our Relay (that I was able to participate in) and I am cancer free! My husband began Brachytherapy over a month ago for his prostate cancer. The seeds have been implanted and he will soon begin five weeks of external radiation. Along with many thoughts and prayers from my family and friends, the American Cancer Society provided the support and education to help me with decisions. I am now relying on those same programs that Relay For Life donations help fund to provide my husband the knowledge he needs to fight against cancer. -Vickie Wilkinson Read More June Edition >> Looking for some new tools and ideas to help your teams with fundraising? Well you are in luck! We have a few new tools and ideas for you to use, including the Fundraiser Tracker, creative ideas to raise $100 and a link to online fundraising forums: 1. Fundraising: At the carwash! Read more… 2. Team Recruitment: Use Your Space. Read more… 3. Survivor Recruitment: How many survivors do you work with? Read more… 4. Sharing the Mission: Let them eat salad! Read more… 5. Marketing Your Event: Checkout Relay. Read more… 1. Fundraising: At the carwash! Want a fun new way to raise money and awareness with a carwash with out getting your hands wet? The Relay For Life of Cerritos has partnered with their local Nissan dealership to use their automated carwash for several Sundays leading up to their event to help youth teams raise money and awareness. Youth teams are given carwash vouchers to help solicit donations for their team. The team that collects the most donations from the carwashes wins a prize and recognition at Relay. Additionally, during the carwash Sundays, the youth teams thank the donors and provide Mission messages and more information on how they can get involved in the Relay For Life! 2. Team Recruitment: Use Your Space. If you are a member of a social networking web site like www.myspace.com or www.facebook.com, post a message to challenge all your friends to start a team and compete with you to raise funds for Relay For Life. 3. Survivor Recruitment: How many survivors do you work with? If you have an employee newsletter, see if you can submit a short article summarizing why you Relay and inviting readers who are cancer survivors to come out and walk the survivor lap at your event and of course invite non-survivors to come out and support their co-worker as a team building activity! 4. Sharing the Mission: Let them eat salad! Ask each of the attendees of your next committee meeting to bring their favorite healthy salad ingredient (such as almonds, carrots or cucumbers). Combine everything at the meeting and talk about the Society’s nutrition guidelines while serving up the masterpiece! 5. Marketing Your Event: Checkout Relay. Ever pay attention to the checkout screen when you’re buying your groceries? Relay For Life of Sonoma noticed one local grocery chain has ad space on their checkout screens. They successfully negotiated to have Relay ads displayed on all the store’s checkout screens in the weeks leading up to their event! My name is LaVerna Edmonds and I am a five-year Cancer Survivor. Right after Thanksgiving 2002, I discovered a lump in my right breast. I thought, ‘this can’t be, I had a mammogram in September, and everything was fine!’ I had not been in the routine of giving myself breast exams (I am now), but I felt that something was wrong. I did not say anything to my family. I wanted to wait until after the Holidays, and then I would go to the doctor. I was sure it was nothing, that everything was fine. I made my doctor’s appointment in mid January. After the exam, my doctor immediately sent me to get a mammogram and a biopsy. I found out a week later that it was cancerous (oh those dreaded words!). Everything seemed to go into high gear after that. My husband and I met with a surgeon and I was scheduled for a lumpectomy within two weeks. I also had to go to my doctor for a routine prior to my surgery. The doctor told me I also had a form of Leukemia. We called it our double whammy! The leukemia is not curable, but the good news is, it is treatable! One of my doctors said it is something I will die with, not from. I’m grateful to the American Cancer Society for all the research that is being done! My surgery to remove the lump and four lymph nodes went well the results were good. A week after my surgery, we met with an oncologist to discuss my treatment. I was scheduled for six weeks of radiation. The oncologist also started me on medication for the Leukemia. I will have an oncologist for the rest of my life. At first, I had blood tests and saw my doctor every two weeks; then it was once a month; every two months; and today I only have to go once every three months! In February of this year, I was able to stop taking Femara (a drug that stops all estrogen…and we did not get a long). That was a very happy day when I took the last pill!!! (smile) If you had asked me to talk about my cancer five years ago, I would have been very hesitant. I did not even talk about it with my friends. But I got involved in our local Relay For Life that same year, and found out that I could help other people by being open about my experience with cancer. Now I am a Relay For Lifer! -LaVerna Edmonds, survivor chair Read More May Edition >> Paint Our Town Purple 2008 Last year, Relay For Life of Hawthorne set a goal of raising $24,000. They were successful in raising $22,000. This year, their goal was the same, but they raised a whopping $48,000 that’s double their goal! What changed? According to event Co-Chair Marisela Nunez-Reynoso and staff partner Katie Holmes, it all came down to modifying three things: meeting venue, strategy and networking. Meeting Venue: Strategy: Networking: Getting Participants to Visit Your Fight Back Tent When planning for your Fight Back ceremony, the number one goal should be to get as many people as possible to pledge to Fight Back by visiting the Fight Back Tent. Here are a few ideas to get people to the tent during your event: ACS CAN Update The Fight Back Express Bus will travel coast to coast collecting stories and messages to lawmakers, giving our loud purple voice a vehicle to impact life saving legislation! The bus will be covered in removable panels that Relayers, caregivers and survivors will sign with a message to their elected officials. The messages will celebrate survivors, remember those we've lost and very clearly show how we volunteers are fighting back through advocacy! The Fight Back Express Bus will end it's journey in Washington DC for the election in November along with millions of signatures carrying the voices of millions of cancer fighters. Whoever wins the presidential race will see for his or herself that America cares about fighting back against cancer! For more information on the Fight Back Express Bus, visit www.acscan.org/bus. Lori Bremner, lead ambassador 1. Fundraising: It’s date night! Patti Fisk, a volunteer in the High Plains Division shared an idea in which members of one of their teams asked a local day care center if they could partner to provide a "Date Night" for parents. The team members charged $20 per child for four hours and made more than $800 in one night! This could be adopted by school groups, church groups or anyone crazy enough to want to spend the evening with a bunch of kids! 2. Team Recruitment: Get outside your comfort zone! Many of us stick to our comfort zones when it comes to team recruitment, asking friends, family and the businesses and organizations we patronize on a regular basis. It makes sense since we do what we know will have the greatest impact and greatest likelihood of getting a commitment to Fight Back! But challenge your committee and volunteers to make at least one ask that is outside their comfort zone! This is a great way to get more teams and build the diversity of your event. 3. Survivor Recruitment: If they’re looking for support, they might be looking for you. Search online for local cancer support groups that might be interested in participating in Relay. Many of these types of groups have websites or on-line contact info so you an email information about your event or possibly speak or distribute information at one of their meetings. 4. Sharing the Mission: Invite a guest speaker. Work with your staff partner to secure a program volunteer speaker or Health Programs Manager at your committee meeting. For example, invite a Road to Recovery driver, Look Good… Feel Better volunteer or a wig fitter from your local ACS office to share their experience working with patients. 5. Marketing Your Event: Every parade needs a little purple! Local parades are a great way to build awareness about your event. When you enter a Relay float into a parade, make sure you have business cards and flyers as well as plenty of giveaways. Do you have a few tried and true tips of your own? Send us your secrets to success by clicking here. On a Personal Note I can still remember the day when I first felt the lump in my neck. I was driving my car, enjoying the radio. I don’t know why, but I reached up and felt my neck. Maybe I thought I was getting a hint of a sore throat from a cold or from all my bad singing! Regardless, I’m lucky to have had that moment when I reached to my neck and felt a lump on the right side. I would stretch out my neck for everyone to see and ask, "does this look unusual to you?" Well, it was my mother, of course, who told me I should go to the doctor and have it looked at right away. My doctor told me that my blood tests were fine and we should just wait and see if it would get any bigger! I didn’t like that idea, so I changed doctors, which turned out to be one of the best decisions I could make. My new doctor immediately scheduled me for a biopsy. I was at my mom’s house when the call came. I picked up the phone and the doctor said "You have cancer." I was 23 years old. I took the news rather well, at first. I actually didn’t cry until my mom did then, I was right there with her! Within a few weeks I was diagnosed with Papillary Carcinoma thyroid cancer and I underwent a full thryoidectomy. I am thankful I was young: I went in for surgery at 7 a.m. and was out the next day by noon! The surgery went well, but as time passed it became apparent that my parathyroid glands would never recover. I started thyroid medication along with prescription Vitamin D and lots of calcium due to the hypoparathyroidism caused by the parathyroid glands not working. I went in for nuclear medicine where I took a radioactive isotope. It wasn’t painful, I simply had to stay confined to the hospital room for a few days until I was no longer radioactive! I went back to work within two weeks of my treatment and finished college. I felt a little sluggish for a while, but over time the doctor and I found the right balance of medications. It didn’t take long for me to get back to enjoying life. I got married when I was 26 and by 30 I had a beautiful daughter named Shae. It was shortly after she was born that I first learned about Relay For Life. I had always wanted to volunteer, but couldn’t find that right fit. But after my first rally, I was hooked! That year I walked my first survivor lap and received my first purple survivor shirt. I loved the event, the people and how much fun it was. I was excited to be able to help raise awareness and funds to fight cancer. Approximately two years later, my husband and I welcomed our son, Sean, into the world. Things couldn’t have been better. I had a great family and job and was busy on the planning committee for Relay For Life of Mission Viejo. Three months after my son was born I went in for my follow-up three-month exam. The test results came back abnormal. With every test, it got worse. Again, I heard the words "you have cancer." My mind wandered a lot and I couldn’t help but imagine the worst. Fortunately, we caught it early. I had carcinoma in situ. I had outpatient surgery and many months of follow-up exams, but no recurrences. And thankfully no loss of any more body parts! At that same time I realized all my medications were not working as they had before. I plunged into hypothyroidism and hypoparathyroidism. Through all this I still had my Relay Team, Team Endurance. I walked my survivor lap and even carried my son for a few laps in the baby bjorn. I couldn’t imagine missing a Relay! It took a couple of years to get my system back in sync. I still have to adjust my medications more frequently than before, but that really doesn’t matter as long as I feel good. One thing I have learned after having cancer is that a lot of people have health problems and they don’t let it slow them down. I try not to let having had cancer stop me. I try to do all the things I would have done had I never had a surgery or had to take a pill. Over the last five years I have never given up and continually work hard to feel as good as I can. A few years ago, I started running again. Last year, I joined the triathlon club at the YMCA and completed my first triathlon and half marathon! I want my children to know that anything is possible if you try hard enough! Having cancer makes you want to do more and give back more. I know I have enjoyed volunteering on the planning committee for our Relay and reaching new milestones with our event, whether it is more teams, raising awareness or raising more money each year. I also appreciate the amazing people involved in Relay. They have incredible passion and dedication to fighting cancer. I try to always remind myself that I am lucky. Yes, I am a cancer survivor. Yes, I am strong! Yes, I beat this disease. Yes, I am fighting to help support the American Cancer Society’s mission to someday eliminate cancer! Yes - Tricia Scott, Team Captain Coordinator Paint Our Town Purple Coming Soon! What can you do to Paint Your Town Purple? Paint Our Town Purple is a great way to bring awareness to the American Cancer Society Relay For Life. In many cases, teams join together to paint their town purple or ask businesses to get involved by decorating their windows to show their support. Others have decorated the city hall, library, schools, community centers, police and fire stations. So how do you get started? First, ask your teams to host a section of your town or to take on a strip mall and go wild with purple. This is a great way to make the best use of volunteer-power and not wear out committee members. One creative volunteer passed around a purple paint can at a team captain meeting and asked for a dollar donation while she talked about Paint Our Town Purple. She also asked them to sign up for a section of town and share how they were planning to go purple on May 1. They raised $86 that night which purchased all of their purple decorations. Decoration items like purple ribbons, balloons, window paint, lawn signs, streamers, sidewalk chalk, purple Halloween lights etc., can be found on clearance, at dollar/discount stores, or vendors like Oriental Trading Company. Take a peek into your Christmas or craft inventory, you might be surprised how much purple you already have! Don't forget about your RFL posters and banners. Other creative ideas have been to ask a local art class or studio to create purple masterpieces that can be hung at a town square or downtown. Many Starbucks have already agreed to make purple whipped cream for their tasty hot and cold beverages have you asked your local National Corporate Team Partner ? Local city officials will be declaring proclamations for Paint Our Town Purple day on May 1 (see a template at www.paintourtownpurple.org) and you can be sure many volunteers will be asking their neighbors, friends and family to wear purple for the day and to decorate their cars and homes. I bet some of us have even seen a face painted purple or purple hair out there bringing awareness to Relay For Life. Your Call to Action: Paint Your Town Purple on May 1 and have fun! Did you have a successful Paint Our Town Purple last year? Share the ideas that worked and even those that didn’t here! Where’s Relay? As a Relayer who lives and breathes purple, it’s easy to forget there are thousands of people who haven’t been exposed to the Relay For Life event in their communities yet! We often take for granted that everyone knows where to go for their local Relay; but "everyone" is often only our team captains. Some team members may be out of towners. Furthermore, if we only think about our immediate teams, we miss an opportunity to recruit new ones, which may walk in day of the event to check out this purple "Relay thing!" Survivors are also the VIP’s so you want to make sure you clearly mark the path for them. It can be frustrating to get lost. Consider how many survivors might never make it to your event because they can’t find your location? Properly branding and utilizing signage at your event will help the community "discover" that Relay is happening. Signage will get Relay participants excited as they approach the site and will lead the way to the greatest event in town that fights cancer! What signage do you need? When should it go up? Prior to your event you can Paint the Town Purple and have the whole town covered with purple balloons, ribbons, signs etc. This will be a great pre-sell that the event is coming! The day of event you can line the street leading up to the venue with banners, signs, balloons, ribbons etc. to lead the way to Relay. At the site, of course, use your Mission Delivery facts signs around the track. Who does the signage? One person? NEVER! Don’t rely on the logistics committee to put signs up in the town as they will be occupied with other tasks for the day. Get a separate committee together to assist with putting up day-of-event signs try getting your youth involved as they love to help and probably can use the hours for Community Service, which looks good on their High School resume. Most importantly don’t let signage fall to the bottom of the priority list on set-up day. Signage is important and we have it available to support you. Banners etc. are shared between events so everyone has access to supplies and we have plenty on hand for multiple events on the same weekend. Work with your staff partner to plan out what you think you need in advance so you are ready to go! Trying to find a Relay tucked away can be frustrating for your participants and especially for your survivors. Avoid making your participants play a game of Where’s Waldo by using signage to help guide their way to Relay! All News Episodes: Track Chats! Going on vacation? Is it date night? Do you have a meeting or sporting event to attend? You’ve got Grey’s Anatomy Podcasts and you’d never dream of not recording your favorite shows. Well now you’ll never miss our brand new season of Track Chats either, because we’re recording them for you! That’s right, we have all-new commercial-free Track Chat "episodes" to take you through the Relay season, presented by your very own American Cancer Society volunteers. So enjoy date night or cheer on your favorite athlete, because now you’ll have the convenience of listening to any of these great Podcasts on your own time. And just like any Podcast, once they’re recorded you can download and listen to them again and again. You might even listen to one together at a committee meeting or team meeting. Your date might even like to listen to one with you. Can you say potential volunteer? Okay, so maybe not with your date, but whenever and with whomever you decide to listen, each episode will contain great information and ideas to help you learn ways to have a successful event. Plus, you’ll have updates throughout the year to keep you informed about the latest American Cancer Society news. How cool is this new, informative, fun and oh so convenient Relay tool? This is just one more way to bring the latest and greatest information to you, because we value you and your precious time as an American Cancer Society volunteer! Current Track Chat topics include: And there’s more to come, so visit this link to get started! 5 Tried and True Tips 1. Fundraising: Play Ball! Are your event participants sports fans? Have them pledge a quarter for every point their team wins in their next game and donate that amount to Relay For Life! 2. Team Recruitment: Team Challenge! Challenge each of your teams to recruit two additional teams to join your event. If you start off with five teams and they are all successful, you should have 15 teams by the end of the challenge! 3. Survivor Recruitment: It’s Tea Time! Host a creative pre-Relay survivor event, such as a tea party or ice cream social so you have the opportunity to share information about the Society’s free programs and services as well as what to expect at Relay. 4. Sharing the Mission: Workshop with a Mission! Host Mission Workshops at your team captain meetings to generate enthusiasm for Mission Delivery themes at Relay! 5. Marketing Your Event: YouTube, RFL Style! Include a link to the Celebrate. Remember. Fight Back! video on youtube.com in your email signature and encourage your committee members and teams to do the same. Do you have a few tried and true tips of your own? Send us your secrets to success by clicking here. On a Personal Note It was the Fourth of July when I first met Magda and Carlos Loredo. Magda opened her home and her heart to me that very first day and Carlos was doing what he did best: standing at the grill wearing sunglasses and a smile as he burned every piece of meat that was in the refrigerator. Exactly one year later when I married their son, they became my in-laws and over time they truly became a part of my own family. In April of 1995 they became grandparents to our wonderful daughter. Carlos was an amazing man. He had faced death more than once in his life, so in 1996 when the doctor told him, "You have cancer," we all knew it was just another battle to be won. The entire family was there on the day of his surgery. The news was good they had found one small tumor and removed it along with two-thirds of his stomach. He had to adjust his eating habits, but he did not need chemo or radiation. It seemed simple enough and we all breathed a sigh of relief. Then one year later we heard the same doctor say the same words, "You have cancer." This time, he said it to Magda. Magda was a strong woman. She had been in the hospital only three times in her life, each time to give birth to one of her three sons. She too had been diagnosed with stomach cancer so we assumed it would be as simple as Carlos’ case. But that assumption was mistake. That week we made the first call to the American Cancer Society. We seemed to have hundreds of questions and the volunteers found the answers, helping our family and friends. We learned that cancers starting in different sections of the stomach cause different symptoms and tend to have different outcomes. Her outcome was definitely different from Carlos’ and we had turned onto an entirely new road. When Magda began her treatments, there were ups and downs, good days and bad ones but eventually she started feeling better. The sigh of relief didn’t come as quickly as it did with Dad, but it came. When they were both feeling better, the doctor gave them a thumbs up to travel. That was all they needed to jump on a plane; we had a hard time keeping track of them while they visited family in Texas and Mexico. They came home monthly to check in with the doctor, do laundry and pay bills. We’d have a huge party and then they were off again to walk hand in hand on a beach in Hawaii. During Magda’s second round of treatment, we decided to all go on vacation together to celebrate the holidays. We rented two condos, packed up three cars and all 14 of us took off. We laughed, we cried, we walked, we talked… but mostly we spent time together. I wish I could say "and they lived happily ever after" but that is not how this story ends. After returning from vacation, Magda’s blood cell count was too low to continue her treatments. Her health took a downturn and she died peacefully at home in March of 1999. It was a tough week but we joined together as family and friends and got through it. At the end of the week Dad sat us all down for a talk. He started by telling us how much we were appreciated and how much we were loved. Then, time seemed to stop when he shared the news that his cancer had returned and it was his turn to start his own treatments. The next five months felt like déjà vu but this fight was bit harder because the decisions fell on new shoulders. Again, the American Cancer Society was there to help support our family and friends. Dad fought a hard fight but it was a battle he could not win and he was laid to rest with his wife in August that same year. It was difficult and sad, but as time passed we did things to heal. We took flowers to cemetery; we looked through photos and told lots of stories. Then two years ago, when my daughter was in fifth grade, after she wrote a story for a class assignment, I realized we needed more healing and that is when I found Relay For Life. We invited friends to join us for our first Relay. We laughed, we cried, we froze and in the morning and we were inspired to do more. Being a part of bringing our community together is important to me, so when I was asked to be the Event Chair this year I was excited about the opportunity. Why do I Relay? Read my daughter, Amelia Rose Loredo’s story and it is easy to see why I am here to FIGHT BACK against this terrible disease. I Relay so that I can do my part in making her wish come true… My Greatest Wish by Amelia Rose Loredo My greatest wish is for no one to die of cancer. If no one died of cancer then my grandparents would still be alive. When I was four years old, my grandparents, Carlos and Magda Loredo, died of stomach cancer. It was amazing that they had the same kind of cancer and died five months apart. It makes me feel sad that I can barely remember them. I do remember my grandmother saying, "Oh, my muñeco," calling me a little doll, and that sometimes she would rub smooth stones on my forehead when I was sick. I don’t remember my grandfather, but my mom told me that he would whistle the song "La Raspa" and I would start to dance. I was born on my grandfather’s birthday and we got to celebrate four birthdays together. When people die it is always sad. My dad was the person who was the saddest, I felt so sorry for him. I wouldn’t be able to stand it if my parents died of cancer. Cancer is a terrible disease that can harm anyone from young children to older people. There are many types of cancer and most cannot be cured. This is my wish, for no one to die of cancer so that everyone can live a long time and that my grandparents could have seen me grow, live and learn. Kary Loredo-Welch For more about stomach cancer, click here. Read More March Edition >> “When I arrived at the hospital, Harry was already coming out of the doctor’s office. As he approached me in the hallway, I could see on his face it was not as simple as the doctor had previously thought. I asked him what the doctor had told him and he said, ‘Let’s go to the car.’ When we reached the parking lot, Harry held me close as he told me the results had come back from the biopsy. He had heard those three dreaded words: ‘You have cancer.’” I’d like to begin by saying, I am a very blessed woman! Many family members and friends have told me that I have lived a charmed life and I certainly agree. At the young age of 16, I met and fell in love with the most wonderful man in the world. We were married two months after my high school graduation and I can honestly say, we were truly each other’s soul mates! March 1998 my husband, Harry came home from work and asked what I thought about a large lump he had discovered under his right arm. The lump had been there for a while but he didn’t think too much about it, attributing it to a strained muscle. We made an appointment with his doctor to have it checked out. He had a biopsy and the doctor said it was probably nothing to be alarmed about so Harry went back to work. That week the doctor called and said he wanted to meet with us as soon as possible. I was supposed to meet him at the doctor’s office, but got held up at work. When I arrived at the hospital, Harry was already coming out of the doctor’s office. As he approached me in the hallway, I could see on his face it was not as simple as the doctor had previously thought. I asked him what the doctor had told him and he said, “Let’s go to the car.” When we reached the parking lot, Harry held me close as he told me the results had come back from the biopsy. He had heard those three dreaded words: “You have cancer.” We sat in the car holding each other tightly and crying, not knowing what was ahead for us. We drove home and the silence was deafening. Neither of us could speak. We stood in the middle of the family room praying together that God would intercede again on our behalf and help us to make it through whatever we were facing. After numerous tests and doctor’s visits it was determined Harry had Non Hodgkins Lymphoma B-cell. He was to undergo a localized radiation treatment that, if successful, would put him in remission. Over the next five years we made routine visits to his oncologist preceded by blood tests and CT Scans to ensure everything was going well. On one such visit however, Harry informed his doctor he had noticed a couple of lumps on the side of his neck and we wanted them checked out. The doctor informed us his lymphoma had returned and it had now spread to different areas throughout his body. We were informed that this particular type of cancer is very slow growing and there was no treatment until the final stages. We asked for a second opinion and the answer was the same. We were now on a road very unfamiliar and frightening to us but even more determined to stay strong for each other and our children and to never give up hope! So, that’s what we did! We returned to our family and our jobs and focused on celebrating everything in our lives. Just a little side bar here you’ll notice throughout our story I reference “We” and “Our.” The cancer taking over my husband’s body was also consuming me! February 15, 2005 we were getting ready for bed when Harry told me something was wrong and thought we should go to the hospital. His heart was beating so fast and hard I could see it pulsating in his chest. The emergency room doctor told us he had suffered another mild heart attack. They stabilized and observed him over night and then sent us back home. We didn’t know it then, but the lymphoma had now taken over his body. For the next seven months we became an integral part of the oncology ward family. With the endless lab tests, doctor visits, chemo treatments and hospital stays, we knew all the doctors, nurses and aids by name. It was becoming increasingly clear that I had chosen the wrong profession in life. I should have gone into the medical field! We were taught how to flush Harry’s IV’s; to change, clean and dress his wounds from the staff infection he got from one of his hospital stays and to give Nupregen injections to keep his white blood cell count up in between the treatments. It was the desire of my heart to make every moment meaningful and special for Harry. We weren’t giving up. He was going to beat this THING! I was always coming up with silly, light hearted ideas to bring into the hospital to keep our spirits up. We were celebrating our 38th wedding anniversary and were the honored guests at the “Club Med” (aka Kaiser Hospital). We had the best room in the resort, overlooking the ocean, fine dining and people waiting on us 24/7! I had purchased a lovely bear with a big vibrant red hat that sang “Lovers and Friends.” Following our candlelit dinner, we donned Harry’s robe and slippers and proceeded to take a moonlit stroll (down the hall in front of the nurse’s station and back again). I strapped the bear (I lovingly named “Hope) to the IV unit that accompanied us where ever we went. Pushing the button on Hope’s left paw, she began to sing as we “danced” and reminisced about our life together and the things we were going to do once the treatments were finished. Passing the nurse’s station again people were applauding, singing and smiling as we reluctantly returned to our ocean view suite and settled in for the evening. I didn’t think of myself as a caregiver at the time because the doctors, nurses, and aides were performing the medical care. But the daily responsibility of overseeing all aspects of Harry’s care, communicating with his doctors and making the decisions became part of my life. After some time, nurses began to call me a caregiver. Was I? Harry and I were in this fight together! We faced many challenges each day. Let’s face it, I never planned on being a caregiver. It’s a job that sort of plopped itself in my lap one day when I least expected it. I was unprepared, untrained and overwhelmed. Our lives were turned upside down and we had to learn quickly and act. It was perhaps one of the fastest on the job training sessions I have ever had. Yet, in actuality, Harry and I were both caregivers to each other. In my eyes, he was the strong, patient and trusting one depending 100% on me the weak, emotional yet determined wife who never wanted to let him go! Being his caregiver; that was the easy part! I was just loving him and wanting him to know beyond a shadow of doubt how much he meant to me. When asked if I would consider telling my story at my local Relay U on the subject of being a caregiver, the first question that came to mind was: “How do you define a caregiver?” What answer can one give to that simple statement? I checked my dictionary to find the definition. It is not listed in the dictionary. It seems to be a widely used word that has become part of our vocabulary, although the dictionary does not define it. The best I could find was the definition of care: “being an object or source of worry, and caution in avoiding harm or danger, and protection with supervision.” That is a good place to start. "There are only four kinds of people in the world: Those who have been caregivers, those who are caregivers, those who will be caregivers and those who will need caregivers." A caregiver gives of oneself to assure that the person in need receives the necessary care to carry on his or her life safely and with dignity. A caregiver sees to it that the basic needs of food, clothing, cleanliness and shelter are met by the person with need. A caregiver never loses sight of his/her own needs and understands that in order to care for a loved one, you must also care for yourself. Last summer my dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Our family re-lived the pain and helplessness that this dreaded disease causes! Surrounded by a family filled with love and admiration, we lost my dad within a few short weeks of his diagnosis. I have come to believe in a team concept of caregiving. With each family member giving what they can, one central caregiver does not own the title. I feel that anyone that provides nurture, comfort and support on a personal basis is a caregiver. Unconditional love … this is what being a caregiver is! If you know a caregiver; call them today and offer to help in one specific way. If you are a caregiver, please take the time to be good to yourself. I am truly blessed and humbled to have been given the opportunity to care for the two most important men in my life! Chris Lescano Survivor Chair Relay For Life of Dixon How did two women manage to sign up two new teams, get tons of goodies donated to their event, find an armful of new leads and convince multiple high-traffic businesses to display Relay information all in less than one day? Paint Our Town Purple of course! Carla Kearin, mission delivery chair of the Relay For Life of Milpitas and her staff partner, Relay Manager Adriana Caldera didn’t have a lot of time or resources to dedicate to Paint Our Town Purple, but they wanted to make a big splash anyway! Armed with purple backpacks loaded with Relay brochures, posters, flyers, team captain kits, sponsorship packets, purple streamers and more, the dynamic duo donned purple everything then jumped on their purple bikes with purple flags to embark on a cross-town purple mission. “A lot of businesses let us put up posters and flyers,” said Adriana. “Some people look at you skeptically, but they see you riding around on a bike wearing a purple wig and they know you’re definitely very passionate about your cause!” Adriana and Carla got one team to sign up from a local health club and another from a local smoothie bar which not only brought their team, but donated t-shirts to give away and sold smoothies at Relay with proceeds benefiting the event! Carla also worked with a local beauty salon to set up an information table and decorate the windows and interior with purple balloons and streamers it turned out to be a great place to hand out survivor information. The salon donated gift baskets to the event filled with beauty supplies and gift certificates for haircuts, manicures and pedicures! “I think it’s a great way to be able to get out into your community and get that message out,” said Adriana. “We were only two people and we were able to cover so much ground. A lot of Relays are concerned about not having man power, but if you use your resources wisely you can have a huge impact.” Did you have a successful Paint Our Town Purple last year? Share the ideas that worked and even those that didn’t here! It’s important to make healthy choices when you go out to eat up to a third of all cancer deaths could be avoided by observing healthy lifestyle habits, including eating a healthful diet. A poll conducted by the Field Research Corporation showed 68 percent of Californians could not answer one of the four questions listed below about the comparative nutritional value of restaurant foods. Take the quiz to see how you do! 1. Which of the following breakfast items that are served at Denny’s do you think has the fewest calories? a. Ham and Cheddar Omelet b. Country Fried Steak and Eggs c. Three Slices of French Toast with Syrup and Margarine d. Three Pancakes with Syrup and Margarine 2. Which of the following items that are served at Chili’s do you think has the least salt? a. Cajun Chicken Sandwich b. Classic Combo Steak & Chicken Fajitas c. Guiltless Chicken Platter d. Smoked Turkey Sandwich 3. Which of the following items that are served at Romano’s Macaroni Grill do you think has the most fat? a. Traditional Lasagna b. Chicken Caesar Salad c. Pasta Classico with Sausage and Peppers d. BBQ Chicken Pizza 4. Which of the following items that are served at McDonald’s do you think has the most calories? a. Two Big Macs b. Two Egg McMuffins c. One Large Chocolate Shake d. Four Regular Hamburgers ANSWERS: 1. (B) Country Fried Steak and Eggs (464 calories) 2. (A) Cajun Chicken Sandwich (2,220 mg sodium) 3. (B) Chicken Caesar Salad (69 g fat) 4. (C) One Large Chocolate Shake (1,160 calories). Read More February Edition >> In 2006, while living in Zionsville, Indiana, I got my real estate office involved in Relay For Life. In our small office of just 27 agents and staff, we had three co-workers battling cancer. I walked in honor of my dad, a prostate cancer survivor of four years; my co-workers fighting the disease; and in memory of my father-in-law and grandfather who lost their battles with cancer. Six weeks before my Relay event, my daughter Sarita called me in a panic about a nodule discovered during her yearly physical examination. Her doctor advised her to schedule a consultation with an endocrinologist. Sarita, 24, was living in San Francisco, had just graduated in May ’05 from San Francisco State University, and was enjoying a new chapter in her life and a new career in marketing. She lived a clean lifestyle. We were a family of non-smokers; she ate healthy, exercised often. I was convinced it was nothing but a nodule, and was busy building my Relay Team. I assured her she was fine. We were a family of heart disease, not cancer. Our Relay event at the end of June ‘06 was a huge success for a village of just 6,000 people! We raised over $90,000 including close to $4,000 from my team alone! The event touched me in a way I had never imagined it would. Witnessing first-hand the personal courage and battles of so many fighting cancer, and the tragic loss of so many, inspired me to stay committed to finding a cure by continuing my support for Relay For Life. Sarita’s consultation with the endocrinologist was in early July. My husband and I were not able to attend the appointment with her since we were in the process of selling our home in Zionsville, and packing for our relocation to the Bay Area in mid-August. She phoned immediately after her appointment to tell us the endocrinologist recommended an ultrasound. "This is routine," I said. "Don’t worry Sarita, you do not have cancer." I continued to be positive and assure her she was fine. When the ultrasound results came back, the endocrinologist recommended a biopsy. I was shocked. "Really," I thought. "A biopsy? Sarita, I am certain he is being very thorough and overly cautious with your diagnosis. Don’t worry, everything is going to be fine, I promise." I felt helpless being so far away from her, but I was more worried about the discomfort of the biopsy, never really believing she could have cancer. As we waited for the results, she was fearful and convinced she had cancer. I don’t know if it was denial, positive thinking or what, but I continued to tell her this was just a precaution, she would come out of this fine. Then she called, sounding angry and frustrated. The results were inconclusive. They’d have to perform another biopsy. The second biopsy was performed and the results would be available the following day. I felt relief that we would soon be able to put this behind us. August 15, 2006 is a day in my life that I will never forget. It was the final day of loading the moving trucks in preparation for our cross-country move the next morning. We were just being served dessert and saying our goodbyes with a small group of family and close friends when my cell phone rang. It was Sarita. She was hysterical. "Mom, I have cancer. Oh my God, Mom, I have cancer." I began to sob in disbelief. I called for my husband and we both listened to her and cried. We were so scared for her and still so far away. The next three and a half days would be the longest of my life. Sarita’s thyroidectomy was performed on October 28, 2006 at UCSF. The surgeon said the cancer was contained to the small nodule. What a blessing! A wave of relief rushed through my body. I knew she would be ok. Following radioactive iodine treatment that removed any remaining thyroid cells through her body, Sarita spent her six-week recovery with my husband and me us in Napa. We felt so blessed to be able to be there for her and help her recover from this terrifying experience. The next nine months were an emotional rollercoaster for her. Regulating her thyroid hormone replacement was a challenge. And the constant fear of another cancer being found or being diagnosed with another serious illness was consuming her. The emotional scars that Cancer left was truly debilitating for her. I constantly encouraged her to take back her life, seek a support group and call the American Cancer Society for help. Napa’s Relay was scheduled for mid-July. I gathered a group of local Realtors and with the support of family and friends our team successfully raised over $8,000! Just one year after participating in my first Relay, I watched with tears in my eyes as Sarita and her boyfriend Mike walked the opening lap with the survivors. My daughter was now a Cancer Survivor, proudly wearing her purple survivor shirt. In mid-August Sarita’s full body scan results came back. CANCER FREE! I am proud to be involved in Napa Valley’s Relay for Life planning committee 2008. I encouraged Sarita to become involved. She contacted her local Relay for Life in Burlingame. The committee chairperson asked if she would be willing to be a committee member for the October event. She proudly accepted! Cancer touches so many lives, and the difference we can all make, just one person at a time has such a powerful fundraising impact in the fight against this terrible disease. I am a Relayer for Life!!! Alica Blas Napa, California Are you a survivor or caregiver? Scroll up to submit your story! Get ready to celebrate cancer survivorship and bring attention to Relay For Life through the second annual Paint Our Town Purple day on May 1! This is a fun way to promote awareness of Relay in your community. Over 100 employees at the City of Mission Viejo dressed in purple on May 1 and Mission Viejo City Hall was decorated with purple "living trees" that they decorated to honor the May Day for Relay. City Council Members also vowed to wear purple at every City Council meeting from May 1 through the June 23 event in Mission Viejo! Yorba Linda City Council members wore purple Relay For Life shirts at the City Council meeting, where a proclamation was presented to the Society declaring May 1 "Paint Our Town Purple" Day in Yorba Linda. In addition, Luminaria bags lit up the steps leading up to Council chambers! The Orange County Fire Authority and Police Departments jumped on the Purple bandwagon with Orange County Fire Authority Fire Trucks and police patrol cars in Seal Beach, Los Alamitos and Cypress bearing Relay For Life flags in addition to 100 OC Sheriff patrol cars decorated in purple! Other creative purple-ing included: · · · · Did you have a successful Paint Our Town Purple last year? Share the ideas that worked and even those that didn’t here! Making simple everyday choices in your diet can help you live a healthier lifestyle and reduce your risk of cancer, heart disease, and diabetes. Answer the following questions to test your healthy-eating savvy. 1. Which of the following is the healthier choice? 2. How many servings of fruits and vegetables should you eat each day for optimum health? 3. Which is the healthiest option? 4. Which of the following can increase your cancer risk? 5. How long and how frequently should you exercise for optimum health? Answers: 1. (b) Choosing lean meats like fish, chicken, and turkey is a step toward a healthier lifestyle. The American Cancer Society recommends limiting how much red and processed meat you eat. 2. (c) The American Cancer Society recommends eating five or more servings each day of fruits and vegetables. A plant-based diet can help reduce your cancer risk. 3. (b) Look for breads that list "whole grain wheat flour" as the first ingredient (which means it’s the main ingredient). Try to eat at least three servings of whole grains each day. 4. (a), (b), and (c). To reduce cancer risk, the American Cancer Society recommends: women drink no more than one alcoholic beverage per day, men no more than two; choosing lean meats, eating high-sugar foods only rarely, and choosing low-fat dairy products over the full-fat version; and maintaining a healthy weight throughout life. 5. (a) The American Cancer Society recommends adults engage in 30 minutes or more of moderate to vigorous physical activity on five or more days per week. It is preferable to have 45 to 60 minutes per day on five days or more per week. |
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